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Caring for our mental health is a sacred practice.

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Bianca Hughes · Dorcas Cheng-Tozun · Drew Jackson · Eli Medina · Jai Patel · Josh Buck · Mondo Scott · Nat Maxey · Osheta Moore · Sharon Wada · Sheila Wise Rowe · T.C. Moore

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Nat Maxey

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What Mental Health Challenges Have Taught Us

Members of the PAX team share about the mental health challenges they have encountered–in their own lives and the lives of their loved ones–and how God has worked through those challenges to transform their behavior and shape their character. Through their experiences, we see how paying attention to our mental health can empower us to become more Christ-like and contribute to the bringing of shalom in our world.

*Josh Buck, Osheta Moore, Jai Patel, Eli Medina, Mondo Scott, Dorcas Cheng-Tozun, Drew Jackson

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Nat Maxey

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Caring for Mental Health Grows Our Resilience

Sheila Wise Rowe

Sheila Wise Rowe

Sheila Wise Rowe has a master's degree in counseling and is active in local and international healing and reconciliation ministry. She has over twenty-five years of experience as a Christian counselor, spiritual director, educator, writer, and speaker in the US, France, and South Africa. Sheila has written for The Boston Globe, The Art of Taleh, Mudroomblog.com and READY Publication. She is author of the award-winning Healing Racial Trauma: The Road to Resilience, and her newest book, Young, Gifted, and Black: A Journey of Lament and Celebration, released in February 2022.

Sheila Wise Rowe

Sheila Wise Rowe

Sheila Wise Rowe has a master's degree in counseling and is active in local and international healing and reconciliation ministry. She has over twenty-five years of experience as a Christian counselor, spiritual director, educator, writer, and speaker in the US, France, and South Africa. Sheila has written for The Boston Globe, The Art of Taleh, Mudroomblog.com and READY Publication. She is author of the award-winning Healing Racial Trauma: The Road to Resilience, and her newest book, Young, Gifted, and Black: A Journey of Lament and Celebration, released in February 2022.

An essential benefit of attending to our mental health is that we become more resilient over time. According to the Oxford Dictionary, resilience is the capacity to recover quickly from difficulties or to work through them and bounce back stronger than we were before.

How we think and behave when faced with a trial, trauma, or temptation affects our ability to increase our resilience. Resilience is like a muscle that grows when we bear weight on it. With every step we take to meet a challenge and focus on our mental health, our resilience muscle becomes more robust and flexible. Then we are better able to meet subsequent challenges.

With every step we take to meet a challenge and focus on our mental health, our resilience muscle becomes more robust and flexible. Communities also become more resilient when they take a trauma-informed approach to open sharing and conflict mediation. They realize that anyone may be carrying trauma, so they are careful and compassionate in their interactions. As a result, the community becomes more connected, vibrant, and better able to maintain the bonds of unity.

If we look at the experience of the disciples in the Gospels, who together faced the challenge of Jesus's crucifixion, we see both trauma and resilience. The disciples had hoped Jesus would transform their community and the nation of Israel. They didn’t understand when Jesus told them who he was and his purpose. As a result, they were stunned when he was arrested and convicted as a criminal.  

While most of the disciples fled in fear, a few watched from the sidelines as a bleeding and severely beaten Jesus struggled to carry the cross on which he would be executed. Later, they could not look away as he hung on the cross. I can only imagine how traumatized they were after witnessing the brutal way that Jesus died.

Like it did for the disciples, previous and ongoing trauma—such as emotional, sexual, physical, or relational abuse, neglect, injury, financial hardship, or racism—affects our mental health. The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Administration explains that trauma can "evoke two emotional extremes: feeling either too much (overwhelmed) or too little (numb) emotion." Symptoms include “exhaustion, confusion, sadness, anxiety, agitation, numbness, dissociation, confusion, physical arousal, blunted affect, flashbacks, and avoidance of emotions, sensations, or activities that are associated with the trauma, even remotely."

Some of us remain in denial of the trauma we have experienced and carry unhealed hurt, which leads to resignation, hopelessness, and despair. But when we choose to courageously face the challenges and address our pain, we heal and build resilience.

We can experience growth and resilience in some areas of our lives, while struggling to do so in others. Neither healing nor resilience grow linearly. Instead, we cycle in and out. We may become weary and wonder if healing will ever occur. But we should extend grace and be patient with ourselves because, as we cycle, healing is happening incrementally.

Regardless of the trauma or hardship we’ve endured, what matters most is that we address it. The disciple Peter, who denied knowing Jesus after he was arrested (John 18), felt enormous grief and guilt because of his actions. Later, the resurrected Jesus guided Peter through a process of forgiveness and restoration when he asked Peter three times, “Simon son of John, do you love me?” Each time after Peter answered affirmatively, Jesus responded, “Feed my sheep.” Peter knew he was forgiven and received a new calling from Jesus (John 21:15-17). This exchange helped build resilience in Peter that he would need for his future life of ministry.  

Though it can be hard to face what happened, every challenge has a seed of strength that lies dormant or unrecognized. When we are ready and take even small steps toward facing the challenge, we grow. Then we start to discover new life emerging from past pain. We find strength in what God has done and is doing now.

One way to build resilience is through holistic soul care practices that prioritize our emotional, relational, physical, vocational, and spiritual health. These soul care practices are therapeutic and may be practiced on your own or in community. You can engage in these practices on an ongoing basis, not only when something difficult or painful has occurred.

Here are some practical soul care activities to incorporate into your regular rhythms:

Neither healing nor resilience grow linearly. Instead, we cycle in and out. Engage in listening prayer. Listening prayer is listening with the belief that the Lord speaks all the time through his Word, pictures, the words of others, and memories. Listening prayers can help you identify how you’re struggling. It can be how the Holy Spirit brings correction, emotional healing, peace, and comfort. Throughout the Bible, people received a new name that reflected who they really were (Gen. 17:5; John 1:42). We can also listen in prayer for our new name or a word of encouragement.

Engage in listening prayer. Listening prayer is listening with the belief that the Lord speaks all the time through his Word, pictures, the words of others, and memories. Listening prayers can help you identify how you’re struggling. It can be how the Holy Spirit brings correction, emotional healing, peace, and comfort. Throughout the Bible, people received a new name that reflected who they really were (Gen. 17:5; John 1:42). We can also listen in prayer for our new name or a word of encouragement.

Bring your thoughts to God. In Philippians 4:8, Paul wrote that "whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is pleasing, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things." As we listen and are attentive to our story's pain and beauty, our thought life transforms. So, we "take every thought captive to obey Christ” (2 Cor. 10:5). We can take those nagging thoughts and ask the Lord what he thinks, or for any insight we need to know.

Though it can be hard to face what happened, every challenge has a seed of strength that lies dormant or unrecognized. Rely on relationships. Jesus’s disciples grew in resilience even as they grieved his death—but they did not do so alone. Through church, support groups, and online or in-person friendships, the support of others helps build our resilience. So does seeing a therapist, journaling, and expressing ourselves through art. These connections remind us that we are stronger and not as alone as we thought. Others can hope for us and help us dream again.

Care for your body. Practicing relaxation techniques releases energy, tension, and stress. Our mental and emotional health can become compromised if we are not eating, sleeping, or exercising. So, walk, dance, stretch,­­ take a nap, and remember to breathe. The word sabbath means to stop, take pause, and be at rest. The Old Testament command to rest is for our benefit. Resting is a revolutionary act, as we surrender our lives solely to the Lord's care. You can also ask Jesus for help in breath prayers: Slowly breathe in encouragements, such as "Jesus, your love is perfect," and then exhale what needs to be released—fear, anxiety, stress, and more.

Express gratitude. Resilience offers strength to continue to heal emotionally and pursue justice for others.Remembering the highs and lows of our journey is crucial. There is much to be thankful for, even during tough times. The Apostle Paul writes, “Do not worry about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God” (Phil. 4:6). We can be grateful for minor and major things, and we can bless others by sharing our reflections.

Remember to play. Do not deny the hardships, but don't forget to focus on beauty, love, joy, and laughter. Many of us need to enjoy ourselves in the healthy and fun ways that children do. Expressive art and music, or playing board games or video games, can engage us creatively and allow us to connect with God's playful presence. We can connect with others and our environment without the pressure to impress or perform.

Practice prayerful activism. As we become more resilient, we can better “bear one another’s burdens” (Gal. 6:2). The prophet Isaiah calls us to “learn to do good; seek justice, rescue the oppressed, defend the orphan, plead for the widow” (Isa. 1:17)." As we advocate for others, we declare that we trust God to take care of us, and out of his abundance, we have more than enough to bless others. Resilience offers strength to continue to heal emotionally and pursue justice for others.

At some point, we each will likely face challenges too great for us to bear alone. Therefore, it’s important to begin prioritizing your mental health. With each small positive step, you are slowly healing and building your resilience. You have the promise that, along the way, “the Spirit helps us in our weakness” (Rom. 8:26). And as you are gentle, compassionate, and caring toward yourself, your resilience will grow and your love for God, family, friends, and neighbors will deepen.

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What’s the Difference between Therapists, Spiritual Directors, and Pastors?: A Video Panel with Mental Health Helpers

Osheta Moore

Osheta Moore

Osheta Moore, PAX’s spiritual director, is a Black, Southern, everyday peacemaker. She serves as community life pastor at Roots Moravian Church in St. Paul, Minnesota. Osheta is the author of Shalom Sistas: Living Wholeheartedly in a Broken World, and Dear White Peacemakers: Dismantling Racism with Grit and Grace, on anti-racism peacemaking.

Osheta Moore

Osheta Moore

Osheta Moore, PAX’s spiritual director, is a Black, Southern, everyday peacemaker. She serves as community life pastor at Roots Moravian Church in St. Paul, Minnesota. Osheta is the author of Shalom Sistas: Living Wholeheartedly in a Broken World, and Dear White Peacemakers: Dismantling Racism with Grit and Grace, on anti-racism peacemaking.

Bianca Hughes

Bianca Hughes

Bianca Kesha Hughes is setting boundaries and breaking barriers in all areas of her life. Known for authenticity and heart-work services, Bianca is the ultimate trailblazer in the mental health and wellness field as a therapist, coach, speaker, and podcast host, inspiring her audience to let go of the illusion of perfectionism. Bianca helps women overwhelmed with perfectionism connect to their inner selves through self-awareness and vulnerability to essentially embrace their imperfections and authentically be themselves.

Bianca Hughes

Bianca Hughes

Bianca Kesha Hughes is setting boundaries and breaking barriers in all areas of her life. Known for authenticity and heart-work services, Bianca is the ultimate trailblazer in the mental health and wellness field as a therapist, coach, speaker, and podcast host, inspiring her audience to let go of the illusion of perfectionism. Bianca helps women overwhelmed with perfectionism connect to their inner selves through self-awareness and vulnerability to essentially embrace their imperfections and authentically be themselves.

Sharon Wada

Sharon Wada

Sharon Wada is co-director of Sustainable Faith, a nonprofit dedicated to fostering a culture of healthy spirituality among leaders and their communities. She is actively involved in training spiritual directors, providing resources for new expressions of Christian community, and creating spaces for leaders to develop regular practices of well-being. Sharon has a masters degree in intercultural studies from Fuller Seminary. She has a particular concern for the complexities and needed contextualization inherent to the journey of leaders of color.

Sharon Wada

Sharon Wada

Sharon Wada is co-director of Sustainable Faith, a nonprofit dedicated to fostering a culture of healthy spirituality among leaders and their communities. She is actively involved in training spiritual directors, providing resources for new expressions of Christian community, and creating spaces for leaders to develop regular practices of well-being. Sharon has a masters degree in intercultural studies from Fuller Seminary. She has a particular concern for the complexities and needed contextualization inherent to the journey of leaders of color.

T.C. Moore

T.C. Moore

T.C. Moore became a Jesus-disciple at seventeen when God's love rescued him from a self-destructive, criminal lifestyle, and a home made unstable largely because of his mother's poorly managed mental illness. Since then, he has been serving in Jesus' countercultural movement. A graduate of Gordon Conwell Seminary with a master’s in urban ministry leadership, Moore has served the multiethnic Jesus movement across the country from New Orleans to Boston to Los Angeles to the Twin Cities. In addition to mentoring court-involved teens, he also pastors a local church, writes, and makes videos on his YouTube channel, "Theological Graffitti."

T.C. Moore

T.C. Moore

T.C. Moore became a Jesus-disciple at seventeen when God's love rescued him from a self-destructive, criminal lifestyle, and a home made unstable largely because of his mother's poorly managed mental illness. Since then, he has been serving in Jesus' countercultural movement. A graduate of Gordon Conwell Seminary with a master’s in urban ministry leadership, Moore has served the multiethnic Jesus movement across the country from New Orleans to Boston to Los Angeles to the Twin Cities. In addition to mentoring court-involved teens, he also pastors a local church, writes, and makes videos on his YouTube channel, "Theological Graffitti."

In the context of mental health, what is your response to the statement “Jesus is all I need”? PAX content manager Jai Patel facilitates this conversation with three other Gen Zers who have lived through trauma and mental health challenges. They share honestly and vulnerably about the harmful messages and responses they’ve experienced from loved ones and faith communities, as well as the beautiful, redemptive hope of the gospel for those who are suffering.

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Thank you for journeying with us on this pathway towards a Jesus-Centered practice of Nonviolence. Before you leave, check out these additional resources that will equip and empower you as a disciple of Jesus. Each resource is designed around the practices of listen, learn, and live. Our desire is for you to take these guides, spiritual practices, and tools with you as you begin living like Jesus as peacemakers in our world.

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Nourish to Flourish

By Sandhya Oaks

When we are struggling with our mental health, we often need help–but we also may not have the emotional capacity to figure out what we need. In this guide, spiritual director Sandhya Oaks, who also holds a certificate in narrative-focused trauma care, provides ideas and tools for creating a personalized mental health care plan. Nourish to Flourish: How to Develop a Mental Health Care Plan clearly lays out steps for seeking invaluable resources, practices, and forms of support to prevent and alleviate mental health crises.

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Finding The Right Counselor

By Richard Bowman

BIPOC communities tend to face greater barriers to accessing mental health care, including the lack of affordability and a dearth of counselors who understand their cultural contexts. In How to Find the Right Counselor: A Guide for BIPOC Communities, mental health coach and biblical counselor Richard Bowman offers practical advice for finding excellent, trustworthy mental health counselors who can understand your needs and support you in your mental health journey.

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Houses of Hope

By Rev. Jermine Alberty

What role can churches play in supporting the mental health of congregation members and community members? Quite a significant one, according to Rev. Jermine Alberty, executive director of Pathways to Promise. Houses of Hope: 4 Keys to Create Caring Congregations for Individuals Struggling with Mental Health covers four areas in which churches can offer support to those with mental health challenges and their family members, offering helpful tools and resources to build these competencies in your church.

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